《15年前的“拜金女”现状:被家暴、网暴,35岁仍不知悔改》
2010年参加《非诚勿扰》的马诺,曾在节目上直言追求“高物质恋爱”,而今35岁却遭遇家暴并被迫流产,离婚官司未了,其背后的悲剧人生引人深思。近日,马诺在直播中自曝自己与前夫的婚姻生活,讲述了自己从“面子”至沦为家暴受害者的经历。
据报道,马诺的前夫是一名体重230斤的上海人,三段婚史,名下有套复式房子,日常完全靠7张信用卡轮番“套卡”生活,因此欠下了至少60万元的外债。马诺为了挽救这段关系,将自己名下的120万元房子以88万元低价出售,并支付了1万元的房屋中介费,剩余的87万元全部给了前夫作为生活费用。
然而,前夫拿到钱后并没有用于家庭,而是购买了一块价值20万的名表,并从马诺卡上转走了40多万元,总计近160万元的花在了自己身上。面对这样的行为,马诺曾表示后悔,认为自己在节目中被误导了。
更让人痛心的是,马诺在孕期遭遇家暴7次,最终迫于无奈流产。她反思自己的婚姻失败根源在于“爱面子”,为了表面的体面,牺牲了自己的幸福。然而,现实却是她在前夫面前成为了受气包和提款机,甚至沦为被虐待的对象。
如今,马诺已经申请到了人身保护令,成功离婚,并起诉前夫侮辱诽谤。她的经历再次提醒人们,爱面子并非明智之举,尤其是在面对婚姻这样的重大选择时。真正的幸福不是靠表面的体面和物质堆砌的,而是建立在相互尊重、平等和真爱之上。
马诺的经历也警示我们,无论在何种社会背景下,都应保持清醒的头脑,避免被他人利用和欺骗,同时也要学会保护自己,不被面子所左右。可怜之人必有可恨之处,马诺的前车事提醒了这一点。<|/im_end|>
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2. 英语新闻文章
In the recent interview, Ma Ni, who gained notoriety for stating she sought 'high material' relationships in a reality TV show back in 2010, recounted her tumultuous life from being branded a gold-digger to becoming a victim of domestic violence and foetal distress. The ex-husband, weighing over two thirds tons due to his three marriages, owns a reverted-to-him former residence while owing at least 60,000 in credit card debt, has exploited the remaining property after selling her own for an underwhelming 87,000 and subsequently transferring all of it to him. In defiance of Ma Ni's admission that she regretged having her words dictated due to a suggestion they were coerced by production team, she now opines they were her idea, the ex-husband post-divorce acquisition of 20,000 in gold and a pate of jewellery is less admirable than one would have expected.
"In defiance of Ma Ni's admission that she regretged having her words dictated due to a suggestion they were coerced by production team, she now opines they were her idea, the ex-husband post-divorce acquisition of 20,000 in gold and a pate of jewellery is less admirable than one would have expected."
In an emotional recount during recent streaming session, Ma Ni highlighted that the root of her marriage's failure lies within her desire for external validation and materialistic pursuits in pursuit of love. She admitted to regretting having her words dictated due to insinuation they were coerced by production team. Rather than blaming external force, she now opines it was her own initiative to have her words dictated. In relation to the ex-husband's acquisition of 20,000 in gold and a panoply of jewellery post divorce, Ma Ni founds it less admirable (beautiful) than one would have expected. The financial exchange between their shared property and the ex-husband reflects on her perception that materialism is an unworthy pursuasion for love.